Updated booklet: A fair share – Negotiating your property settlement

When a relationship ends, working out how to divide property, assets and debts can be complicated and emotionally demanding. From the family home and vehicles to superannuation, financial commitments and other shared belongings, reaching an agreement takes time, information and careful consideration.

Developed and updated by Relationships Australia family law experts across our federation, ‘A fair share’ is designed to help separating married and de facto couples understand their options and navigate the property settlement process. It places a particular focus on family dispute resolution (FDR), which can help couples work through decisions and negotiate an agreement with the support of a qualified practitioner.

This fifth edition reflects current Australian legislation relating to property and financial matters and includes updated resources and tools for separating couples.

This booklet explains what is involved in identifying and dividing the property pool, the importance of full financial disclosure, and how legal and financial advice can support informed decision-making. It also outlines what to expect at each stage of FDR, from the initial intake and ongoing sessions through to finalising a property agreement.

Recognising that every separation is different, the guide also explores alternatives to FDR, including negotiating through lawyers, making an informal arrangement and seeking a court-ordered property settlement. It highlights the importance of considering individual circumstances, future needs and, where relevant, arrangements for children and family pets.

Practical tools are included to help readers prepare for the process, such as financial and property checklists, debt lists, information about contributions and future needs, and a list of companion animals. The booklet also provides a glossary of key terms and information about where to access further support.

‘This self-help guide to property settlement has always been one of our most popular resources and I know this updated version will assist many to navigate these difficult waters.’

–Dr Andrew Bickerdike, Chief Executive Officer

Whether you are just beginning to consider your options or are already working towards an agreement, 'A fair share – negotiating your property settlement' can help you better understand the process, prepare for important conversations and identify the support available to you.

Read the updated booklet to explore your options and take a more informed approach to negotiating your property settlement.